Avoid doing these things so that your wife will occasionally enjoy their time in bed with you. She deserves it.

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 Although it is true that you are the head of the household and that marriage is for better or worse, don't you think your wife, even if she is merely a housewife, deserves the best from you?

There are some things you do in the bedroom that she won't approve of, even though she might not be able to articulate herself in a way that leaves you believing she still loves you.

Husbands, I'll mention them here so you won't make your wife demand a separate room, which is bad in this part of the world, and prevent you from exercising your marital rights.

Except in the case of polygamy, which is a different situation, separate rooms for a man and his wife are not in the fundamental Nigerian culture.

Consequently, refrain from doing the following in the bedroom if you don't want to turn your wife off.

1. Failure to take your birth after coming back from work.

Don't jump straight into bed after arriving home from work; instead, take a bath to wash off all the grime and perspiration that must have accumulated during the day.

Your wife may remain silent out of fear, but she will become put off by this because it can cause body odour.

2. Removing your shoe inside the bedroom.

Since your wife can't take care of everything for you, remove your shoes outside the bedroom when you get home from work and don't bring them inside.

That pair of shoes have to be left outdoors because they smell bad.

3. Paying all your attention to your phone instead of your wife.

You should put everything else on hold and focus solely on your wife in the bedroom.

It's not a good idea to stay in the bedroom while glued to your phone, and your wife will get annoyed by it.

The only person you should spend time with in the bedroom is your wife, with whom you should develop a close relationship and go over family issues.

4. Answering unnecessary calls.

I advise husbands to switch off their phones and not pick up calls while in the bedroom with their wives, unless it's an emergency.

Additionally, if you must answer a call, choose a male friend; otherwise, your wife will be angry, and you already know what will happen.

5. Sleeping off without consulting your wife.

Finally, talk to your wife briefly in the bedroom before drifting off; don't just ignore her and fall asleep.

You'll find out if she needs any help at that point, and you'll have a chance to give it.

Avoid doing these things so that your wife will occasionally enjoy their time in bed with you. She deserves it.